Keep your socks on.
1. Add a pillow in there.
No, don't have sex with the pillow, that's weird. But a pillow can
modify most positions by slightly altering the angle of penetration, and
that can make a huge difference.
2. Have sex on a deadline.
Give yourself 20 minutes, or if you're daring, an hour where you can't
have sex. Force yourselves to have foreplay until the timer goes off.
3. Wear your socks. Research shows that keeping your socks on during sex
can help regulate your body temperature, which in turn makes you more
comfortable and it makes it easier to orgasm. Keep a pair of socks
around just for sex. Sex socks. Sox.
4. Use a tie.
Modify a position by tying your hands behind your back, above your
head, or to the bed. Or use it as a blindfold. Limiting mobility or
covering your eyes and giving control to your partner can make an old
position feel totally new. It's like the espresso shot of sex modifiers.
5. Toss in your vibrator.
You're making a sex salad, and the vibrator is the cucumbers. Using
your vibrator externally while he's inside you can make even missionary
awesome. You can even use it on your partner. Don't start popping it
into holes without asking, but even holding it against his balls can
produce some surprising results (spoiler alert: it will make him come).
6. Kiss while you come. This
is how people make love and junk. Kissing during an orgasm adds an
emotional intensity, like you can almost feel your partner's orgasm
vibrating through you, like when you went on a field trip to the science
center and all held hands while someone touched that electricity orb.
Someone sappier than me would probably describe it as two bodies
becoming one though.
7. Tell him to edge. Edging sounds like something only cool kids do ("Bro, do you even edge?") but it's really just a way to describe the act of stopping sex
right before the point of orgasm to cool off a bit before starting up
again. Forcing each other to hold off from orgasm can make the eventual
release much more intense (and also make him last longer).
8. Do it outside the bedroom. The
shower, the couch, the kitchen table, the floor. A change of scenery
makes for a surprising rush (like when you get to work from home for a
day — it's like, "Where am I?!"). Plus, having sex over the
side of an armrest might feel a lot better than doing it over the side
of your much shorter bed. You've now found a new favorite sex accessory
(sexessory? Sorry).
9. Throw in some (approved) anal play. Motherfuckers
act like they forgot about the butt. A little anal stimulation can go a
long way. That's what my grandfather always said, anyway. Stimulating
the uh, entrance can even be enough to intensify sex (and this goes for
both genders). You don't need to be shoving your fists up there, just
move your finger around like you're trying to recreate that ringing
noise that happens when you run your finger around a wineglass. Just
make sure you ask first. People are sensitive about their butts.
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